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Our four-year-old has a tendency these days to whine when we go on our walks. Some of it is probably the broiling August heat in humid Florida. Some of it is not being used to going on long walks on his own two feet – my fault. But the part of our walks that he loves, every single time, is pointing out the animal, insect, and plant life as we go. He picks up on things that are so mundane I wouldn’t even think to point them out to him, things like birds chirping, wind in the leaves of the trees, an extra-large colony of ants, and “palmetto tops” on palm trees. I am afraid I don’t usually appreciate these things, but what would I do if any one of these things were suddenly gone forever? I would be bereft without the birds, hot and bored without the wind, and horrified without the beauty of the plant life around us. The ants? Well, I’m sure the loss of ants would start an awful domino effect in the chain of life.
One of the blessings of having children is being taught by them day after day (they are patient teachers) how to notice and love the little things. On our walks, my son gets even more excited if we collect a few things to bring inside. They can simply be leaves, nuts, or berries. (Since we live in the southeast and I grew up in the northern Midwest, and get nostalgic for it, my mom sent us a packet of autumn leaves and acorns last year!) He often finds wildflowers to give to his dad or me. There have been lizards, frogs, and insects that one of us has caught and yes, at times those have made their way inside the house.
Except for the insects, we use these pieces from nature as part of our dining table’s centerpiece for the season. I usually start with a seasonal candle on a doily and add the “nature” around it. Out of our small collection of candleholders, one of our favorites is the harvest candleholder draped with clay leaves, berries, grapes, apples, oranges, and a beautifully shaped pumpkin. It looks even better when we arrange similar real-life items at its base. When our son makes an art project using natural materials, we highlight that in the center of our table as well. It’s a great way to learn about the seasons and encourage our older son to take more walks and make more art.
We may also put flowers - wild, fake, or store-bought - in a wall sconce that holds a vase (one of many wonderful gifts from my husband). It sits right behind our dining room table and is one of my favorite easy decorating pieces. Our fresh bouquets and centerpieces stay pretty small because the whole family is afflicted with seasonal allergies. But it’s worth a little bit of suffering to mark the seasons in this most natural of ways.
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